Getting an ex girlfriend back is what many guys search for following a breakup. Do not feel bad if you're one of them; This is quite common and normal. Many breakups are not meant to be; They happen because people act based on emotions when they're angry and they later regret it.

The law of attraction has become quite popular in the last few years since the introduction of the movie and book "The Secret." In various forums the question often comes up even if someone can get their ex back using this law.

You must realize that the law of attraction has its limits. First, it's not the answer to every problem as many are led to believe. Second, it does not allow you to control others. It's just not possible. It does allow you to attract what you want into your life.

So if getting an ex girlfriend back is what you want, there are certain things you can do to attract her back to you. Remember though, you can not manipulate her mind to change the way she feels about you. You can attract others to you by becoming an attractive person. In order to do so you need to have a positive outlook on life and feel good about yourself.

Feeling good about yourself creates the vibration of joy, peace, and love about you. Those are the most powerful attractors. Here are a few things you can do to accomplish that:

Keep yourself healthy and physically attractive by eating right, getting enough sleep, and exercising.

Be more relaxed and calm. Learning relaxation techniques as well as meditation and yoga can help you achieve this.

Have an attitude of gratitude. Be appreciative and thankful for the things you have and are available around you. This is one of the most powerful aspects of the law of attraction.

Read a book, watch a video or attend a seminar on personal development that can take you a step further into becoming that attractive person.

After you have made all the positive changes in your life, you will automatically attract others to you, and getting your ex girlfriend back will be easy. Just show her what a wonderful person you are and subtly remember your ex girlfriend of the things that made her love you in the beginning.