Try not to worry, even though you are in a hellish situation at the moment, it does not indicate that this will forever be the situation. Giving up on your relationship merely because you were dumped is not needed because there are heaps of things that you can try to regenerate his passion for you.
You will possibly not recognize the reason why your boyfriend left you and his conduct could appear wholly out of character, but you will still find things that you can do about that. Feeling angry and over emotional right now probably won’t do you any favours in the long run, it’s going to just make you feel worse. He’ll almost certainly go back to you if you use expert know-how and never go into this with your eyes closed.
It’s time for something different. It is essential that you get your emotions under control as fast as you can if you are to stand any chance of making him want you back again. There is no doubt that your emotions will be running high after a break up and that you will be feeling very angry and upset. If you do not do this then there will be tough times ahead for you. You do not want to end up making a fool of yourself or it will be difficult to reverse.
Never allow yourself to stoop to the depths of hurling abuse at him or wailing for him to take you back, it does not look pretty and all respect that he did have for you will be lost. If you choose to go down this route you will regret it as this is the last thing that he wants to hear. The male species are very different from females in this respect, they do not like to deal with feelings as it makes them feel uncomfortable.
You must do everything in your power to make yourself attractive to him again and this means that there will be no tears or tantrums in front of him! You do not want him to pity you in any way, but instead be surprised about how well you seem to be handling the break up. If he ends up respecting you then this will work wonders for you in getting him back. Respect is the only foundation for a successful relationship so make sure that it is in place before you get onto the next stage. If you realise how special you are, he will too, and his views of you will alter as well.
The key to making yourself feel better about yourself is taking control of your situation. Cry your heart out and take your frustrations out in a healthy way, but you will have to pick yourself up and get on with things if you want him to see you in a positive way. It is the way that you deal with heart ache that sets you apart from the rest, so make sure …